Train Them UpWhen people ask me "what do you do" (meaning what job do you do) and I answer, "I'm a stay at home mom", I sometimes get a quiet response as if the person is thinking
well, that's not a job at all. And I do occasionally find myself falling into the trap of wondering
what do I really do as a stay at home mom?? Am I
really making a difference in my children's lives?
And then He speaks to me! I have a little daily flip calendar on the bar above the sink in the kitchen with quotes from Dr. James Dobson's books. And although I've read it almost daily for several years now, each time I flip through it, there is a fresh realization from God just waiting for me (He's good like that). Today the quote was:
No job can compete with the responsibility of shaping and molding a new human being. (from Dr. Dobson's book,
What Wives Wish Their Husbands Knew About Women). Wow!! It was as if God himself was saying to me "you may not get paid for it, but you have a very important job as a mother".
When you think about all the responsibilities a mom (well, not just moms, but parents) have to their children, it can actually become overwhelming, especially if you are a Christian parent. And sometimes it seems like you try your best to train up your children the way God instructs you to, but those children are rebellious little creatures, and it seems as if all your training goes in one ear and out the other. However, there are occasionally moments that make you realize your hard work is paying off. Like when your 6 year old (who attends public school) announces that he and his sister were playing school, but their school was a special school because you could learn about God there! Then there's your 3 year old (who attends a christian pre-school), who announces during the dinner prayer that we
really need to pray for her friend's dad who is in the hospital. They
have been listening to all your training! They
are getting it! It's enough to make a proud mommy cry her eyes out!!
I thank God for allowing me to have the best job in the world, because there is no other job that could be more important than training up the children God has blessed us with!!
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. ~ Proverbs 22:6